i meant it in a way that no one should EVER obsess about it. Should never have it constantly in their minds. Should never make their life revolve around love.
Let us go back to the four different loves. Agape, Eros, Storge, Philia. Love for God, Love for sexuality, Love through familiarity, and Love of friends.
I was referring to Eros. The other three could be abundant in tsunamis and i wouldn't care less. Even when someone feels, feelings can be inappropriate. i talking about feelings of desire. Feelings that lead to unpleasant complications. Feelings that you should not be feeling ESPECIALLY when they appear to have a paedophilic nature (as the blogger whose blog i read did). FEelings can make you fall sick without you ever realising it. The worst thing of all is when they fall in love with being with love. Mother of Cows.
It doesn't mean i don't love. I'm just saying don't love someone to death. It rather defeats the purpose.
Speaking of critising to one's face, if you're (whoever you are) so into that kind of thing then quit being anonymous and put a name to your own face. I couldn't post on his blog because it'd be rather pointless and rude seeing as he doesn't even know me. By posting it on my blog, i get to make my very valid point on the entire world wide web, not just for that helpless romantic to see. I wasn't blaming ANYONE and no, i've gotten over that stage where i try to be different from everyone just for the sake of it.
Love from a teenagers point of view for me shouldn't be to let things go out of control. FOr me, it shouldn't be hasty. Shouldn't be about throwing your life away when you haven't even earned it. Shouldn't be about having the impression that love is oh-so-desirable-and-great. Don't put all your baggage in your cart and chuck it before the horse.
I've done it before. I've seen it before. And i won't do it again. The wise man learns from the mistakes of other but the foolish man never does. Taken from the bible, i'm just quoting :P
It appears to me that people often have comprehension problems.
Patootie.
Ps. I'm not anti-love, i'm anti-sex (for this period of my life and hopefully for much longer).
posted @ 4:22 PM
